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        Cheers! Christian Raphael is joined by mum
        Vicki, friend John Taylor and personal
        assistants Ana Fernandes and Tom Maddox
        – this is his natural habitat, according to
        Maddox; off to post a letter; walking home


          Even so, in May 2022, Vicki spent
        an hour arguing for Christian’s jab
        at the vaccination centre. Three
        days later, he tested positive and
        Vicki is convinced he caught it
        during while waiting at the centre:
        “It was the only place we had been.”
          For three months, he was
        desperately ill in hospital with   garden. When rules allowed, there
        Covid and nearly intubated on   were performances and mini
        several occasions. Vicki says “it was  festivals; they feel lucky to have the
        a near miss”. This experience   resources to do this.
        explains the cautious return to his   What would help improve the            learning disability. Leadership
        routine, such as the pub visits.  lives of people like Christian, says       training courses for disabled adults
          All his life, Raphael has been   Vicki, is stronger governmental   By the stage where   and parents of disabled children
        going to the Cambridge Folk    policy. She remembers Valuing   mini festivals took   are needed, she adds.
                                                                     place; performers
        Festival but that did not run during   People, the 2001 white paper that   are part of Raphael’s   “If I could magic one thing up
        the pandemic. The family is    promised a new strategy for   social network  now it would be to have more
        involved with the festival and set                                           family leadership courses again,
        up a scheme several years ago to                                             like Partners in Policymaking [a
        sponsor new musicians and singers.                                           national scheme that started in
          Both Raphael and his mother                                                America]. This would be influential
        make a choice from a shortlist of                                            and give a network for families. So
        newcomers, with the winner of the
                                                                                     you could get the moral lead from
      Seán Kelly/www.seankellyphotos.com  cash award and professional advice.        enjoying a Coke. Maddox launches
                                                                                     people with lived experience.”
        Christian Raphael prize receiving a
                                                                                      Back at the pub, Christian is
          Mother and son go backstage to
                                                                                     into a David Attenborough
        meet artistes, who often keep in
                                                                                     voiceover, joking: “And here is
        touch afterwards. Vicki says it gives
                                                                                     Christian in his natural habitat.” We
        her son an extra network.
          During the pandemic, the family
                                                                                     all grin. Times are tough but this
        built a small covered stage in the
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